The first step to getting what you want is knowing what you want. This is something that all too often gets overlooked and all too often it’s assumed that we already have this.

How many motivational posters tell you things like ‘go after that one thing that makes you truly happy!’ or ‘never give up on your dreams!’? That’s all good and well if you’ve always wanted to open your own restaurant, or if you’ve dreamed of having your own successful band…